Dating Tips for Guys: How to get a number
new york dating coach
get plenty of numbers, friends
give them your phone, have them type it in
don’t even need to mention meeting up again
How to Flirt
body language
eye contact, the way you look
always have fun, giggle, laugh/jokes
little fun and teases
flirt with people all the time/practice!!
How to Ask a Girl Out
personalize the date, something in mind!
ask casually, show interest but easy out
ask someone else, or for another time
How to Attract Women
body language, physical confidence, good posture
eye contact if interested, Always a smile, wink
no hesitation - killer of attraction
talk to her, ask her name
How to Be Attractive to Women
not job or money that makes you attractive
passion is more important than a career
hygiene, smell nice!
show value for your own time, your interests
most attractive is to be confident, be you
How to Keep a Woman Interested
women go through men more quickly
make her feel needed and worthy!
suprise her, take her to dinner then circus
sending flowers to work! secret messages!
cutsy things, took the time to keep her interest
go to different and new places! never been before
clubs, friends, dancing, embarass yourself
How to Guarantee a Girl's Attention
women think a lot, 100s of things
plant seeds: places to go, music, likes
she may also go home and think of those things
smile/wink at her, say something then disappear
there 1 min, gone the next, she has to find you
pay her a nice compliment, easy going. nice hair!
she has to look for you to get your attention
How to Cure Yourself of Nice-Guy Syndrome
be nice, but value your own time
use time wisely and spend it doing what you want
don’t be a pushover, do it on your own
How to Flatter a Girl
on date: can compliment her once (she’ll remember)
don’t over compliment, will make her feel uncomfortable
be sincere! not generic! “what color are your eyes?”
“in that skirt, you are the sexiest girl here”
beginning of a date, but dont say it again
How to Know When to Approach a Woman
not while working (waitress, starbucks girl) must reject
never when with another man
not in a large group of women, all eyes judging you
when she’s by herself, trying to meet a man
book store, wedding, club, dinner party, friendship, social
How to Break the Ice When Trying to Meet Women
if nervous - go in and introduce yourself
ok to admit you might be a little nervous about it, ok for them too!
“I just had to come over and say hi”
How to Be a Good Conversationalist
women are the experts on this topic!
know how to listen! how they are saying it, not just the data
wait for your turn to talk
continue on the same topic, talk about them - not yourself!
don’t brag and talk about your vacation, talk about theirs
how did they feel about the topic?
First Date Converesations
should have 1000s of things to talk about, ask questions!
follow up with a response to her answer, how did she feel about that?
oh, i feel similarly about my home town, etc
ask another question if gets quiet
keep things up beat!
How to Become More Attractive
get active, more physical activity, more glow! hiking, etc
good for skin to sweat, constant movement, dont be sedantry
keep busy, smiling and laughing, friends and family, motivated
smiling happy and confident
How to Create a Romantic Atmosphere
calm and easy voice
music w/o lyrics, she’ll think about them
lighting, mood lighting, candles, dimmers
body language
pillows, blankets, couch, comfy textures
smell in a room, bad won’t smell romantic/sexy
